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How To Meet Shemales, Transsexuals And Crossdressers

By Shawn, Webmistress @ Shemalepics4free.Com

Ahhh, the MOST burning question on the internet is, "How do I meet shemales and T girls?"  As Webmistress at Shemalepics4free.Com I have had a lot of contact with some really great people who are also transgender and with people who want to meet us. 

So I feel qualified to answer the question of how to meet T girls.  In fact, I could probably write a book and go on talk shows answering this subject, but instead I am more than happy to share my personal knowledge and share resources with you to hopefully help you find that special someone and make a successful connection. 

Tips For Meeting T Girls!

T girls are special - Being Feminine and being treated feminine, like getting attention from a gentleman admirer is the greatest satisfaction for a T girl.  The word "gentleman" being a very key word here.  When you make a t girl feel you are treating her with the respect and dignity befitting a "lady," you are well on your way to success!  Some men have told me that nobody can make them feel the way a t girl can make them feel.  So it's a safe guess that these guys know how to treat a tgirl like a lady.  T girls really are special and they can make you feel special too!

Identify what you're looking for - There are long term and short term relationships and of course, sexual encounters.  So you must decide how serious you are.  Then, there are pre-op, post-op, transvestite, etc and you must decide who you want to meet.  Perhaps you just want a sexual experience with a shemale but you're also open to the fact it could lead to something more, like a long term relationship.

Understand that not all t girls are the same - There are different types of T girls and it's important that you have a basic understanding of the various types of t girls.  It is a big mistake to assume that all t girls are the same.  This is a risky assumption and if you misunderstand you could miss out on an opportunity to meet the "girl of your dreams."  Some T girls are just not interested in men and some are heterosexual male cross dressers, and you shouldn't waste your time with them.  Some T girls are bisexual and you have a chance here.  Some T Girls are looking for men and some are looking for women.  Some are seeking only sex and some are not.  Some live as females 24/7 and some live only part time as females.  Hopefully you are not too confused now.  If on an online personals page or if your in a chat room read or listen to HOW  t girls describe themselves and you should be able to know where they are in their life and where they are heading.  If you just talk to a t girl you should be able to resolve any remaining questions you might have.  Remember you are looking for a certain type of t girl personality and so you need to look for a t girl who is looking for someone like you.

What kind of T girl do you want to meet? -  Okay, here it is, one of the most awkward topics yet, but one of the most important.  You know that all T Girls are not the same.  Many, many T Girls are actively pursuing sex change surgery and are uncomfortable with their male genitalia.  Needless to say, these t girls would not be interested if you want to "fondle" their "extra parts."  On the other hand, there are plenty of t girls who are willing to explore all aspects of their sexuality.  Communication is always the key to finding out what someone wants.  I suggest that you pose a question designed to answer your question such as, "How would you expect your partner to satisfy you?"  Obviously this would not be the first question you ask, but you should know when the right time comes and a question like this can provide you with the information and insight you need to form a relationship or not.

Use proper terminology - You need to nkow that not all t girls like being called shemales.  Some of us do not care one way or the other but it is an error in terminology that could keep you from dating someone special.  A lot of well intentioned but misinformed admirers have struck out because they used the term shemale.  So a good rule to follow is don't refer to anyone as a shemale, transsexual, transvestite, etc. until you have asked what she prefers to be called.  If you must use a term, perhaps the term transgendered is the least offensive of all the terms.  Transgendered is a generic term, is rarely, if ever, offensive, and seems to be the most widely accepted.

Avoid horrible opening lines - If you really want to meet a t girl then DO NOT go to a chatroom and say, "hey, any chicks with dicks in here?"  or "I need someone to suck my dick, any shemales here?"  Unless it is your intention to offend people, you will want to avoid saying things like that.  Instead, show an interest in the t girls you meet online in personal ads, chat rooms, message boards or in person.  Introduce yourself and ask permission to chat or email, to get acquainted.  Just get to know the girls by exchanging small talk to establish if you want to pursue that particular girl.  If you take the time to get to know us, you'll be able to find out who has an interest in you.  

Search the personal ads - Shemale Personals are one of the best ways to meet quality people. Unlike people who are chatting in the chat rooms, or who post messages on bulletin boards, the people who place personals are genuinely interested in meeting others. In fact, they are so interested that they have taken the time to place a personal ad. I recommend that you first search the personal ads to see if you find someone interesting. If so, politely respond to their ad to see if you can begin some type of communication. If all goes well, perhaps this will result in a personal meeting and romance! If you don't see anyone that matches your criteria, try placing your own personal ad. A recent photo in your ad is an absolute must. When used properly, personal ads are one of the most effective and least expensive methods for meeting quality people. I frequently hear back from people who have met someone special in the personals and I'd love to hear your success story!

Visit the nightclubs - You may wish to find a local nightclub where you can meet t girls in person. This can be a very effective and fulfilling way to meet a t girl as you can immediately see if there is an attraction.  Sometimes there's the real possibility of an immediate gratification if you hit it off.  You should know that many t girls go to transgender friendly nightclubs to socialize in a safe environment, but there are some who do go to sell their wares, so to speak.  Simply put, some of the t girls you meet in the nightclubs are professionals and you will pay a price for their affection. You can meet t girls in nightclubs but just be careful and use common sense.  Follow this link to check out the transgender friendly nightclubs:  http://www.shemalepics4free.com/shemale-clubs.htm.  

Use online resources - Chat rooms, message boards, personal ads, and directory searches are good resources to help you meet and understand t girls.  I think you should check out all these resources to help you learn about t girls.  You will probably be surprised how much you can learn by reading message board posts and replies.  The same goes for a chat room, enter one and sit and "listen" to the conversation in the room.  You can even ask question in a chat room as a non-threatening way to get information.

Make a great first impression - A good first impression is critical in most everything we do in life.  It is even more important that you make a good first impression when the people can't see you but can only read what you are saying.  So it is important that you write in such a way that you are creating a picture of yourself as an honest good intentioned admirer who they would like to get to know better.  So don't be offensive, show your education with good grammar and spelling and express yourself well.  Listen well also because this is how you will be able to determine which t girls you wish to try to get to know better.  Needless to say, you will be looking for these qualities in the emails coming to you also.  The bottom line is if you communicate well you will usually get the response you are looking for.

Promote yourself! - Here's a great tip that will pay off big if used properly. If you are sincere in your desire to meet a t girl, take a little time and make yourself a website. It doesn't have to be elaborate, but it should include some basic information about you. A photo is a must. A recent photo please, 'cause you probably aren't going to impress anyone if you publish a 15 year old photo of you and then they meet the present you. Describe yourself honestly and state exactly what you're looking for. Tell a little about your interests, dislikes and anything that makes you interesting or different from all the other guys they may hear from. You don't have to be a professional website designer. There are many programs available online that guide you through the process of setting up a website easily and painlessly. AOL members can set up a hometown page for free. There are other free services such as myspace.com, geocities.com and countless others. The idea here is that you can provide a link to your personal website to anyone you meet online, whether you are chatting in a chat room, responding to a personal ad or responding to a message board post. This is a great way to attract people who are truly interested in you!

Steer clear of the bad apples - Just like other people in the real world, some t girls have drug or alcohol problems, nasty dispositions, etc.. A few simple questions will reveal many of these undesirable traits. Again, just be honest and upright in your communications and expect the same from others. I say it is definitely worth spending a little time getting to know someone, rather than rushing into a meeting that could be unpleasant, or even disastrous. Most t girls are good people, but there are those who should be avoided.

Play it safe! - Safety is a very important part of meeting anyone new in person.  Just as you would check out other potential friends or lovers, you must also screen your t girl friends. You're going to want to know if they have alcohol or drug abuse issues, criminal records, STDS or HIV+, etc.  No. 1 Rule always is that you must protect yourself.  Safe sex should always be a priority.  While shemalepics4free.com defends a persons right to sexual freedom, we also strongly believe in the responsibility of all people to practice safe sex.  This means getting to know someone before you hop into bed with them, use of a condom and get tested periodically for sexually transmitted diseases.  So enjoy life but play it safe!

Patience and perseverance are good qualities - As with all relationships you must shop around and look for people who fit your idea of who you want to be with and this is the same with t girls.  Time and time again I have seen t girls online turn men away because these men have not bothered to educate themselves about the specialness of being a shemale and the do's and don'ts of being with a shemale.  Don't give up, just educate yourself to get what you want and you will definitely find a shemale for you.    


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